Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Part 1

OK I guess it is time
What do I get from TTWD as HOH?  I don’t Know!!!!!!!!!
Warning! I am not as articulate as my Missie!
Now we have officially been doing TTWD for about a year now.  My household has changed.  Missie and I do not have as many arguments, my kids are better behaved (Most of the time), and I have less stress at home. 
Now things don’t get out of hand before they are corrected.  My princess still gets away with more than she should, but that is my fault for spoiling her.  When I have had enough all I have to do is say the magic words and it stops.  If it does not stop then whoever is at fault gets the punishment.  Chores are assigned and get done most of the time (Still have some areas the kids need to work on).  If I see Missie getting too stress or one of those woman things where she needs to cry I have a way to help.  There is more, but I will write in time.

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Asking a Dragon to Write

I have asked Dragon to write on two topics. A punishment from his pov. And a simple stress relief. I know how they are different for me and what goes on in my head. I want to know what is going on in his head. Second topic, how TTWD has positively affected our marriage.
 
Unfortunately Dragons don’t take orders and he isn’t over fond of requests either. Begging and bribery haven’t worked either. Have to wait and see…

Friday, July 1, 2011

Dragons don’t speak often, but It is time to add comments again.

1st peter 3
1 Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.
 7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
OK now women, your husbands cannot make you be submissive!  If we try to spank you into submission we will break you (yes all of you are China Dolls).  That is not what we want.  I don not want a wife that fears me, rather one that submits to me because she trusts me!
Husbands as stated you cannot beat, spank or torcher our wife into loving submission.  She has to willingly submit to you.  You HAVE to make the possible trough trust, understanding, Kindness, love and yes discipline.  What is a world without rules and enforcement?  What is a home without rule and enforcement?  Love your wives and make it easier for them to submit to you as HOH and the household law, judge and punisher LOL.